When a child says "I don't want to!": The communication magic from power struggle to cooperation
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When a child says "I don't want to!": The communication magic from power struggle to cooperation
"Get dressed and go out!" "I don't want to!"
"It's time to eat!", "I don't want it!"
Does this conversation sound like the theme song of your daily life at home? ... [The article continues, told from a friend's perspective, using common scenes from Hong Kong families]
Why do children always say "I don't want to"?
From a child development perspective, this is actually a healthy sign that the child is developing self-awareness and autonomy... [This section incorporates developmental stage information from the Department of Health or well-known psychology websites]
Three "magic phrases" for communication, replacing commands and shouts.
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Use "Let's do it together..." instead of "You do it..." ...
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Offer limited options ...
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Accept your feelings, then guide your behavior ... [Provide specific, actionable examples]
Remember, you're his teammate, not his opponent.
Changing communication patterns requires patience... [Concludes with support and encouragement]
【Important Note】 This article is for informational purposes only and is intended to provide general information. HK SafeKids is not a medical or professional mental health advisory organization. If you or your children experience any serious health or emotional problems, please consult a doctor, healthcare professional, or expert in the relevant field directly.